I think my W is having a long distance EA. She has given me the ILYBNILWY speach, said I did not support her emotionally, and she wants out, it's over, no need to try.....
Checking her cell calls, there is a suspicious number that she is in contact with basically everyday on the way to and from work. It is an outside consultant that works for her company that lives in another state. The calls are not generally long, sometimes 10 min, most shorter. Can't tell what she does from work. Also, after a late business dinner last week she never did call me to say she was on her way home (normal) but she did call him 3 times, the last must have been while sitting in our driveway given the time.
Other signs - started going to gym, changed hair style, tanning, dressing more provocative
How can I confirm this or what should I do about it. She has a genuine need to talk to this person for business reasons but I don't think before and after work are necessary.
