yeah, kick his butt to the curb, and live a great life for you and your kids, find someone better to replace him and then when he comes crawling back to you, tell him "I'm not sure how I feel about you anymore, maybe you can wait around for me 6-12 months while I make up my mind about you & me and compare you to other people and if I remember, I'll let you know"
;-)
yes that would be mean but I think it would "undo" all of that begging & pleading but that's just my 0.02 cents on this, I'd love gooch himself to chime in on his own thread and respond to you, he's the king around here.
p.s. I'm not going to get overly personal & emotional on this topic, I'm just going to say I'm not a fan of any man who can get his wife pregnant and then leave her right after the kid is born, I have no respect for any guy who can do that and I have a list of colorful words to describe a guy who does that to his wife. Just my 0.02 cents on this subject.