After a month, I'm back. My brain's been fried. I swear, I feel like I can't put 2 words together to form a F****** sentence, let alone complete a normal thought.
Now Mr. A and I will be at court on Wednesday for a final divorce decree.
In the meantime, I have to do TOO MUCH at work. I've not been spending enough time on these boards, nor have I been spending enough time reflecting...
I have a couple of practical questions for you guys--
1) Mr. A and I met for mediation on 7/12. At that time, I asked that he be patient with me and he agreed. He's done more since then to carry out our agreement than I have. Trust me, I'll get around to it eventually. I'm just too busy indulging myself with other things at the moment, like watching TV. My therapist says that this behavior is not cool and kind of passive-aggressive. What do you guys think?
I don't feel like "hopping to" just because we went to mediation. All of this is sooooooo annoying.
2) I kind of would like to call Mr. A tonight or tomorrow night, just to let him know that I will see him on Wednesday. I don't want to do this to be mean. I'm missing him fiercely!
Again, the therapist says, What do you hope to get out of that contact? I don't know, just to hear his voice one last time as my husband?
Is that a bad idea? I mean, what's the harm now?
Any advice on either topic is much appreciated, though I may not be back online until tomorrow night.
