Really, you can't take her off? Why the hell not??? She needs to find her own insurance, I say- if open enrollment is in a week, you can do whatever you want, regardless of whether she likes it. Remember, that you taking her off yours is a qualifying event for her, so she should be able to then sign up in the middle of a plan year, got it? You are responsible for you and DD, period.

I like the name and the attitude- but if you start talking about "petty sh!t" that means you have emotions around her and are letting them show. would advise against that- as my usual advice- say it here- we all agree with you 100%. Then send the edited version ;-)

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When the men on the chessboard
Get up and tell you where to go;
And you've just had some kind of mushroom
And your mind is moving slow;
Go ask Alice...
I think she'll know.