The A/C went out in our home. I called the service guy and they came out. They told me that the A/C is on it's last leg and I should replace it. My W texted me and asked how things were going. I explained to her that I'll need to replace A/C soon and it's going to cost $$$$$. I got a very interesting response
W: How much? Maybe we should just call everything off FFH: Not sure how much I will get bids. Call what off? W:This whole thing... I guess I was kidding. I'm just feeling sad about taking son out of house and you being alone on your birthday. FFH: I'm sorry you feel that way W: Don't be.
She called right after that and asked to talk to son to say goodnight. She is working tonight so she won't be home until late. I'm not sure what any of this means but I've learned not to trust anything she says anymore.
Any thoughts?
I've learned not to trust anything she says anymore.
If you've learned this, I guess then you already know not to trust what she says, take care of the AC, get bids from several hvac companies, you don't need her help with that, in fact proceed when you get the best bid and get the job done. As for her, let her deal with her guilt which is what's happening right now, smile, be happy, life is good, you're alive, you're a parent, roof over your head, money to fix the AC unit, life isn't all bad ;-)
