Also Pin, I am very impulsive as well, that is why I am quick to defend and throw things back at her. That has been my biggest 180, but an accomplished one so far, hopefully she has noticed, I feel she has, but again I am sure like other W's she will think it is temporary since it has only been a short time.
yeah she noticed, if you didn't notice, you scored a back rub from a wife who wanted you out of the family home last week and who wants to divorce you.
Did you forget that?
I think that's interesting considering she is so against you and wants to leave you and divorce you.
She gave you a backrub and you gave her one too.
I could be wrong but that's not typical behavior for a WAS who is determined to leave your a$$ and get a divorce.
Don't read anything into it but I'm thinking that backrub was the first of many.