In my case, STBXW inquired about kicking me off but was told she couldn't until the actual D. In our state you can't actually get divorced until you've been separated for two years unless both sides agree.
So I have that chip going for me if I want to drag things out and stay on her plan.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
