If this fails, I'll have two divorces under my belt. In the first, I was the WAH, in this one, I'm the LBS. I think the reason there's so much divorce is that our society doesn't really teach people how to stay in love, how to make it work when things get rough.
I never thought my marriage was perfect, but I loved my wife wholeheartedly. If I had known the pain I was causing her, I would have changed my behaviour in a flash. She too never learned how to communicate, and that's a recipe for a guaranteed flameout. I'm hoping that we can both land in friendly territory after pulling the ejection handle.
School is a great goal. Hope you did well on the mids.
Hey guys, Thanks for the good lucks much appreciated!! Just at a stumbling block now; W gets back tomorrow S will probably be gone for another 3 weeks which sucks. W and I probably won’t have much contact unless it’s to do with money. Unless we talk about the separation agreement I have a consultation with a lawyer who specializes in mediation and still in contact with my original lawyer but she is expensive. How do I go about if we do talk about the separation agreement / D again? Any thoughts I just don’t want to end up like the last time we talked!!!
Next month is our anniversary is for us to get away and also see a concert with Ray Lamontagne. I planned this well before our situation. At least the trip to get away before this year in Nov 09(when we were working on our M) and found the concert tickets in Jan before the D-bomb again. Lucky for me I didn’t lose any money but it just sucks thinking of it.
Oh well just wondering how to get through the big Anniversary do we talk say Happy A at all just not sure what to do. It’s not till the end of next month just trying to get some more great advice well thanks guys. Going to cram some more and then off to Gym to run.
Hey guys, Thanks for the good lucks much appreciated!! Just at a stumbling block now; W gets back tomorrow S will probably be gone for another 3 weeks which sucks. W and I probably won’t have much contact unless it’s to do with money. Unless we talk about the separation agreement I have a consultation with a lawyer who specializes in mediation and still in contact with my original lawyer but she is expensive. How do I go about if we do talk about the separation agreement / D again? Any thoughts I just don’t want to end up like the last time we talked!!!
You say, "I'm really not qualified to discuss that kind of stuff right now. It's best we leave that to our attorneys."
I say, go to the concert and have a good time. Just NO EXPECTATIONS, and DON'T GO ALL "MELTY MAN" on her!!!
Would love to but dont have the tickets should I still get them (I know probbly not)!! I don't know if she would even go if I had them? or do I do anthing at all??
Hey guys, Just wondering what to do next month during our-anniversary? Just dont want to fall back or mess anything up!! Any thoughts?? Talk later Hope
Would love to but dont have the tickets should I still get them (I know probbly not)!! I don't know if she would even go if I had them? or do I do anthing at all??
I'm confused. I thought you said in your post above that you already got these??
