I want to expose the affair to EVERYONE (his sisters, his best friend, his boss, his commanding officer, his other male friends and their wives, etc.). My mother and sisters are already aware of his affair and they cannot accept that I still love him.

I was so sick over this a few months ago, that I ended up in the hospital.

my H will BE UPSET and spew HATEFUL words and actions. He will TRY to put me out of our home, but my L told me that he cannot do this without a court order. Even though I cannot file any suit against my H while he is overseas, he can file against me.. that is what I understood. So really, if he is so upset, he can file for D as early as January 2011 and probably be granted the divorce.

Me 41/H 49
M 12yrs
No Kids
Bomb 1/10/2010
H Deployed
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