Sometimes he still spews at me, as current as this past Friday before he came up. Then Saturday he treated the kids to see Despicable me and sent them with my sister while we went to see Salt. No hand touching or anything. Basically watched it as 2 friends which is what he wants to be. Last Saturday he planned a surprise with the girls and we all went to dinner to MY favorite restaurant. But I've learned not to feed into these things and get my hopes up b/c when I do he reminds me he's just being nice it doesn't mean a thing for "us". He says to get over him and move on. He said I'm just "so into him" that I can't see I keep ruining things daily.

I think I may just give up on hopes of a R. B/c everytime I get my hopes up I'm shot down, hard! And I'm tired of hurting. Of course he tells me to "move on" he knows darn well I'm 6 months pregnant and have no desire to "move on" relationship wise. And he knows the kids are extra clingy since he's left. They suddenly have a fear of abandonment so I have zero time to ever go out alone mon-fri evening and this is to his advantage. When I was still in our home town and GALing he was upset and thought I was cheating.

I'm usually pleasant when he's up here. Now it's time I go dim and minimize contact with him during the week.

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DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10
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10/08- Bomb
4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program
3/10- WH moved out.
7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug