Even my sister-in-law (his side) was laughing at that one!! (the shoes).
And I went walking with my neighbor friends tonight and they are SUCH ENABLERS!!! They were FULL of very, very helpful ideas!hahaha.
I don't want the divorce really I guess-that is why I started coming here 6 years ago--but I feel pretty certain that there isn't much I didn't try. I was a good "DBer" and I know what it's going to take in this R, but I'm just not willing to be that person any longer--it's too much and everything seems to point to this being the right thing for me to do. I hope someday he get his anger taken care of, but it is not me that is going to get him to do it. He's not afraid of losing me enough to stop doing what he is doing.
The only thing I haven't tried is what I'm doing now--really playing tough and then I'm going dark. I haven't done that strategy!lol.
But I'm dangerously close to smelling freedom and not ever going back--and I would like to be the kind of person that would try again if he tried, know what I mean??
I think also an affair may be brewing--not sure about that one but it seems to come along about now, right? There's territory we haven't explored yet either...
I think you are SO RIGHT about the pictures!!! My sink is leaking underneath some way. I told H about it a week ago, he hasn't done anything about it, and I'm going to document the water under there and everything in bags on the floor so it won't get soaked.
Yes, he makes ridiculous money. By working only 11 days a month. It's unbelievable. Horrible black mold in our bathrooms, stained carpeting, a mattress that sags and all my appliances out in the garage and me using a dishwasher that I have to clean most of the stuff as soon as it's done. The new one is so nice--he did get an upgrade and I did appreciate that so much. He can be very decent, and then he has the other side.
I feel very sorry for him. Course, in a couple of days I'm sure he'll do something to make me get over THAT emotion!!
