braveheart, you are entitled to your opinion of how mwg is handling things. But, you are relentless at badgering mwg. What I wonder is what you expect her to be doing? If I understand correctly she has no job, no income, a deadbeat H and father, a car that is mostly broke down, a job market with no jobs, no way to pay the mortgage, etc.....
mwg, I am amazed that there is the ability to send kids off to college, have a computer and internet, keep the attitude to keep looking for a job, not be bitter about the events in your life.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.