This is GREAT insight. To correct, I do have a job, just not one that pays that much.
BTW - My H called and left me messages at work for the last 3 days (today, and yes, even Saturday and Sunday). I just charged my cell phone and noticed he also called and left messages there. He also emailed me several times today, saying: "I have not spoken to you in a while and can you let me know if you are alive..." Well, I have NOT returned a call or answered email. What is this saying..him calling/emailing?
QS, yes, while it was not laughable to me when my H wanted to throw me out, it is FUNNY now because the nerve. I caught him and the OW and he wanted to throw me out of the marital home?? Seems ludacris I know. The issue I have with our home is that he bought it originally when we first moved in together. He never (and I never asked) that my name be added to the deed. That is why he pays the mortgage.
He also tried to get me to change my mind about exposing because he said that he would have to tell his security people at work that he was being threatened (with exposure of his affair) and that he would fail a lie detector to protect me because my future would also be impacted.
I think he may have been living with her before his departure (not sure, although I was listed a guest during his entire stay at an Extended Stay hotel here in our hometown). I did the occasionally drive by to see if his car was there. Oh, I also have her license tag number and I know the make and model of her car.
Should I call or write the JAG office? I brought up the core values of the military and he laughed in my face when this all first exploded, that is why initially I figured it wouldn't make a difference because he didn't seem to care if I told his commanding officer.
Me 41/H 49 M 12yrs No Kids Bomb 1/10/2010 H Deployed The three great essentials to achieve anything worth while are, first, hard work; second, stick-to-itiveness; third, common sense. T. Edison
