Originally Posted By: Rob1231
Hey Doc, Remember how one of the big lessons of DBing is that you need to grow as a person in order to bring your stronger, happier self into the relationship? Same goes for her - if this is a way for her to explore some "self help" type activities, have the confidence in yourself and in her to let her go do that on her own.


YES... you are Spot on as usual... Thanks for pointing this out to me. I am still learning.



And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know