In regard to the insurance I'm thinking of adding:
"If you want to stay on my plan that's fine but you'll have to reimburse me for these costs like you're asking me to reimburse you for the petty sh*t."
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again