If this fails, I'll have two divorces under my belt. In the first, I was the WAH, in this one, I'm the LBS. I think the reason there's so much divorce is that our society doesn't really teach people how to stay in love, how to make it work when things get rough.
I never thought my marriage was perfect, but I loved my wife wholeheartedly. If I had known the pain I was causing her, I would have changed my behaviour in a flash. She too never learned how to communicate, and that's a recipe for a guaranteed flameout. I'm hoping that we can both land in friendly territory after pulling the ejection handle.
School is a great goal. Hope you did well on the mids.
