I feel pretty good right now. Got up early and took a 42 mile bicycle ride...got the endorphins bathing my gray matter. Yeah, it's been especially rough the closer we've gotten to the trial date. I hope things smooth out and get better. My son and I are doing really good together. I don't want any kind of war with her, but she texts me this crap...she's doing the very thing with my daughter that she falsely accuses me of doing with my son! I did send gucci's text to her...didn't matter, as she just kept on. She wants out of my life, and she wants our kids out of my life, and it pisses her off to no end that my son is preferring to be with me.
"You should tell her you're done, you've accepted the current situation and you'll be fine."
I plan on doing that when the time is right.
"When we keep engaging them it feeds the fire and they think we're still hurting and we're in pain which furthers their excitement."
I agree with what you say here. I think she gets some kind of satisfaction knowing that I still care. She likes to be able to hurt me now.
Yeah, it's (the trial) coming up in a couple of days. I hope I come out of this thing OK...she wants full custody of the kids, and she wants to devastate me financially and emotionally. I'm fighting it every step of the way.
All of this is part of her pleasure. They key is you have to let her go. Think about how life is going to be where you don't have such a negative force in it. Also know that there are other women out there who will value you just as you are, happy to take what you have to offer and who will want to give to you.
Let the wife go, and the pain goes away. Once you distance yourself from her, her attacks will have no effect on you. Some of the attacks use so many manipulations that it really is crazy, and its funny to look at.
