Quote: what if we truly became the women that our husbands thought they wanted, would they in turn become the men we want? is that possible?
or would we go back to the old resentment cycle because they cannot change, or will not change?
thing is for my kitti, when I was busy trying to be the w I thought h wanted it wasn't after all what HE wanted it was what his family projected. so for me to be the w I think he wants (h doesn't complain about anything I do or don't do cept for maybe complaining about him doing or not doing something) is a bit more difficult as it involves biting my tounge when he's just being him even if that has an indirect effect on me and the kids.
