If your H is trying to sell you the idea that you two can both work full time while YOU go to school part time AND run the household and family as you are now... that's just NOT feasible
He complains about money and wants you to work full time but doesn't offer to do any more work around the home to offset your time working?
He's just using his IMAGINATION and has this fantasy world in his head where you two both run off into the working world and the household just magically takes care of itself?
If he has'nt thought it through, its just a fantasy he's selling you and he wants YOU to participate in it...
The KIDS are the ones that get screwed because the household will fall apart from undermanagement
Are you at all interested in participating in that little fantasy of his?
