Thing is, he probably feels/thinks to himself (and maybe says to you) that it would be better if you just stopped "teasing" him with all the public affection and the sexy dancing . . . but that's not true. What he wants is the reality that those gestures imply; he wants them to continue, but he wants them to represent the truth of your relationship.
You both have to find a way to insist on your own integrity without demanding that the other give up his or hers. It isn't easy to do that.
