I totally understand what you are saying.

The infidelity is such a small part of all the damage.

Trusting again would be quite a challenge for me, but I know it has been done.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11