When you put it this way, NO! Not fair at all. AT all!
I am not even worried about the fairness as much as I am the realism of it...
This is the way your H is envisioning things when he says he wants you to work to bring more money in...
It's just another fantasy just like infidelity... not realistic at all... completley ignored the long term, ignroed the details, fooling himself ANd you into thinking it will pan out like this without a hitch...
He's not THINKING.. he's just TALKING with no follow through...
This is how people plan when they are having affairs...
he wants YOU to buy this fantasy of his... only in this fantasy you are the OW... do you see this happening the way he's describing it?
