This was a time she probably could have used some extra support and understanding. This was not the time to get hung up on your needs and run away overseas for a year when she needed you the most.
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I figured it would be a good way to get my family ahead in this world, and let me work out my issues at the same time. My wife and I talked about it, and both agreed that it would be great way to get our family ahead. She didn't second guess me one time.
I know puppy. I thought it too. I used to do 4mon deployments years ago and we were always fine. So I never even thought about it. Maybe she just got tired of always being the strong one in family. She was always there for me and I used that......
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