I think most of us BSs can live with the second half of that, understanding that it's going to take a long, long time for this to happen, if it is ever going to happen.
It's the FIRST half, however, that -- although it's very typical to adultery (Harley talks about this lack of remorse in his work) -- is nevertheless a dealbreaker for many.
Tough stuff, Future. I don't quite know what to tell you.
Puppy
Yes, it is. Thanks. Truthfully, I worry more about what it means to our future, rather than the past. If in some way she can convince me she's totally re-committed to our M, and is working on having a great R, the past will fade into history. I don't have any desire or need to hold onto past hurt, for its own sake.
