new chapter with strange WAW

[TimeHeals]

She said she doesn't want that, but she can't see any way for us to get past what she did.

Defriending the OM and complete transparency would be a good start.

W: "Because it seemed like a hostile thing to do, and I didn't see a need to be hostile."

You know what is hostile to you, your M and your family? Her keeping ties with OM. Do not let her turn this on you. This has put your M on the rocks.

Right now it sounds not so good for you two, and she needs to step up to put things right. Tell her.

I know what you are going though all too well, and I wonder if this half-hearted reconcillation attempt that my STBXW is making is just about keeping me from moving on until she can find somebody else or something.