I am finally starting to see the light. I do not need anyone to make me happy but ME! It is a very freeing feeling...But regardless if "anyone" reads this I need advice or input.
I am finally realizing that the other woman is a very affected individual. She has text messaged me on numerous occassions, sent me a letter and called my home. My h posted a quote on an online site and she put it in her cube at work. When I mentioned it to my h she wrote it bigger and put hearts around it...very mature..really.. The funny thing is I do not care anymore WHAT she does with him and what she does not know is that I am over her childish games, because why care..really..if she wants him and he wants her then have a nice life. They have both disrespected me in every way possible. He has shown up with pictures of them, her necklace, notes in his pocket. She thinks I am keeping him there because of the kids when I have given him a million opportunites to go and see what life would be like with his "soul mate" as she says and the love of his life. How do I get AWAY from her? Is her behavior normal? How do I let her know that really she is insignificant in my life now and I have so much more to worry about than what she is doing with hers. I have my kids to think of and myself and my family. That is my priority..not some nutcase...HElP! Is this normal??

Last edited by swimmingupstream; 07/26/10 05:58 PM.