Hey Gr8, been following your sitch too. Glad to see you are doing things and making decisions for you with your house, etc.
Have you heard anything from Glimmerman lately? I haven't seen him here in awhile and was wondering how he's doing.
Regarding the dating issue to get the spouse to come back. I don't disagree with what anyone feels is right for them to do to save their marriage. If some people take the approach to date then that's good for them and hopefully it works. If for not getting back their WAS then for moving on with a new R. I can understand that people get tired of waiting around for their WAS. It's just not something for me, that's all. We all have our reasons.
A friend of mine who is also going through a similar sitch has recently started dating. From talking to him I'm not sure how happy it makes him feel that he is dating. It seems like he's just doing it to fill a void right now. Deep down I think he still would like things to work out with his W.
I think the DB methods of no pursuing, GAL, etc. are good for everyone to use but the dating other people is a personal preference. I know this topic has been debated a lot on this forum.
Good to hear that you are enjoying time with your children.
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch