What a long strange trip it's been

[Rob1231]

I asked becasue I thought this would be a great way for US to do something together. She said she thinks so but they meet in the morning. This is too bad because I am in school at that time.

Hey Doc, Remember how one of the big lessons of DBing is that you need to grow as a person in order to bring your stronger, happier self into the relationship? Same goes for her - if this is a way for her to explore some "self help" type activities, have the confidence in yourself and in her to let her go do that on her own.

Some people are telling me that If I had exposed the A three years ago I would have saved me this entire wait.

That and four dollars will get you a cup of coffee at Starbucks. Don't let ANYBODY suck you into playing the ol' Coulda Shoulda Woulda Game - TOTAL waste of time. You are where you need to be, right now, and that's all that matters.