Looking for help with WAW

[gr8 day 2B alive]

mza8,

I've been following but not much too offer lately.
I saw this though:

I believe your ONLY chance is to find another woman that your WS thinks you have the hots for.

You're right when you say in may or maynot work.

For my sitch I don't think it is working. I have been GAL with a new lady friend but I'm not sure if W knows. She may through our mutual friend, but that's not why I'm doing it. For me it was part of my detaching.

The OW I'm with now said she has experienced men she dated going abck to their Ws after they saw their H with her.

Again some do some don't. But don't disgard the notion entirely.

I have taken over the role of leading the necessary actions to take for D.

I emailed her last week about the division for the house.( no response from her yet)

I also emailed her last night suggesting we take turns once a month watching the kids for the full weekend.
Right now she has them until Saturday afternoon so our weekend are only one day of free time. I know I would like to have the opportunity to go away for the entire weekend and I'm sure she would like the same.( No response on this suggestion yet either.)


Bottom line for me, If showing her I'm leading and moving on with my life doesn't spark her to say anything to me then I know she doesn't want to reconcile..... and I'm OK with that.

I have two great kids to raise and enjoy having them.

I read on another thread Puppy said the same thing about W seeing you with OW. If it does bring them back it at least gives them something to think about.

gr8