Sometimes "hope" is all there is. That hope has to include that you can help your children get through whatever comes next. The best that you can do for you and your children is to take care of yourself and to treat their mother with respect. She is responsible for her behavior and you can not make her respond the way that you wish. Don't ever disrespect their mom in front of them. But if you truly are divorcing, then your first priority as to be your kids. You will get through this and can reason some of it out but kids, especially little ones have a harder time understanding. Hang in there, conduct yourself with honor and respect yourself. Who knows what tomorrow may bring? There is always hope, no matter how the circumstances change. Blessings
