Thanks for checking in PH. You're right about letting go of the bitterness and regret.

Robx, yes, I read that part of Gucci's post but that's one thing I am unwilling to do to get W back. Maybe it works for some and maybe it doesn't...it's just not who I am.

W emailed me last night (first time we have had contact since Tuesday's talk) and said she was thinking about the house over the weekend. Said she is worried about having the house off the market for too long and it causing a problem with the bank. She was thinking we should ask the former agent to extend her listing for one month while W and I worked out the details to list the house. She asked what I thought.

I emailed her back right away last night. I told her that I was thinking about the house too this weekend and I agree with her that we should get the house back on the market quickly. I said that we can talk about the house listing this week and how I can help her with this. I said to let me know when she's availble and I will make sure to make myself available. Haven't heard back from her yet.

I know she's stressed about the house. I am going to make it easy for her. When we talk I'll inform her that I'll sign the agreement and list the house so we can lower the price and sell it quickly. I will do whatever makes her comfortable now. I will really listen to every word she tells me.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch