Also, you haven't ever really left him so he may not really understand what is happening. It may take time for him to realize that you really are gone. Just hang in and stick to your boundary. If he moves on to OW3 so easily you don't need him.
I know it is all hard to tell your heart, but in time you will heal. Just try to have some fun and take care of you.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89