"I never felt that way about you"
"I just want son to be ok"
"I have to put my needs asside for my family"
"that's just the way I am"
"I love you, I'm not in love with you"
"why do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you"
"when you know your h is in love with someone else"
"we all just married the wrong people"
and many more that pop back up when h just drifts into his own little world.
