We booked a flight to Puerto Rico for September 13. My W did a great job of finding a studio condo on the beach for a great price. I also agreed to the dance weekend with our studio for August 21-22.
My W is talking about having a family meeting (the dog too?) to discuss cleaining expectations in the common areas. That seems like a constructive idea, so will listen to what she has to say, when it occurs.
My W got drunk at a weekend studio Salsa party. I think she drank too much on an empty stomach. We had to pull over on the side of the road, while she threw-up. I didn't get upset about it, and was mildly embarrassed at the dance. I figured the natural consequences were harsh enough. The instructor told me that she thinks my W is a free spirit, and is crazy but with a big heart. A lady I danced with, noticed that my W and I were "back together." I guess a relationship shows its problems to the public to some extent. I replied that "I guess we are back together" and left it at that.
I signed-up for swimming lessons, and will likely begin in the next week. I want to get more comfortable in the water by our beach vacation. My W has been giving me some tips, when we go to the pool.
We've been spending a lot of time together--dance lessons and practice, exercise classes, dance venues, and restaurant. It goes well for the most part. Conflict occurs mainly around household cleaning standards.
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CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."