To add my thoughts...Puppy is totally right! I was stupid and made the accusation before I had any proof and had nothing to back up my position. It was a mistake because then H took steps to go more underground and I drove myself crazy trying to figure out how to get proof after that.
I drove myself crazy trying to figure out how to get proof after that.
I have come the realization that there's nothing I can really do about her activities on FB or anything else in her life, an ulcer is in my future if I do not “ drop the rope” as they say. I need to give her privacy and it hurts like hell. She wants her own life right now and until she chooses something different there's nothing you can really do.
As someone just told me :
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She doesn't belong to you (me), remember that. Try to avoid the things that will hurt you. Searching her out, won't help, no good will come of it.
My eight year old daughter told me this week that Mom had a friend (male) at the summer cabin. He was there with his two children. My daughter said mom told us they work together. They spent three days at the cabin and funny thing was wife’s hole family was there including Aunts and Uncles. We have been legally separated for four months… This must have been going on for some time for wife to be introducing anyone to my children never mind her family. Do I confront her on this…we are still married not divorced speech. Do I leave her be and let her go do what she wants. My daughter said the man mom and the four kids would go down to the beach every day….If I had a nickel for every time I ran that scenario thru my head…I’d be rich. Please help
