[quote=dsh4320]Remember about the arguments, don't defend yourself, quickest way to end the argument is NOT defend yourself.
"You are right, I was wrong"
"Yup, I lied, I can see why you could never trust someone like me"
"I'm a liar, I can't even understand it myself, I had no real reason to lie but I lied just the same and all I can say is sorry for lying to you, it was the wrong thing to do."
Say the ones I bolded enough times and about the third or fourth it loses its meaning completely. It's all well and good to validate and be prepared for her response and to handle it well, but how about you don't DO WHAT YOU KNOW IS WRONG AND IS GUARANTEED TO BE DETRIMENTAL TO YOUR RECONCILIATION ATTEMPTS?
