Forward,
I agree, some closure would be nice. It is weird I have these dreams in which ex apologizes and shows regret for what he has done. I wake up in the morning feeling so much better.

My ex has shown no sign of remorse for what he has put everyone through. Prior to mid-life crisis, he was always the first to apologize.

I am way beyond longing for reconciliation. I would just like to know if ex has any happy memories or misses the family unit.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11