Had a great weekend with the kids. W got home a midnight Fri and had to be at work at 3:00 on Sat morning. I had a band gig Sat. and did not see her until Sun evening. She worked Sun a.m. at her regular job and went straight to her bartending job after that. The kids and I did our regular Sun thing and I took them swimming in the afternoon. W was supposed to work until 8:00. She txt me @ 3:00 saying it was slow at the bar and she was headed home. She asked what we were doing. My phone was in my truck and I didn't get the txt until 6:00 or so.(My phone is not permanantly attached to me like hers is ) I txt her to let her know where we were. She said she was going to lay down, she didn't feel good.(the kids said she threw up a few times on Sat.-maybe from partying too much?)
We got home @7:30 and I got the kids showered while she was sleeping. They wanted breakfast for supper and I told them that was a good idea, I would make eggs and bisquits and gravy and sausage when everyone was cleaned up. W woke up and immediately started in on a rampage. "They usually eat at 5:00, you mean you haven't fed them yet? It's too late for a big meal. This kitchen is a mess, let me clean up so I can find sh!t and I guess I'll make some fu#*ing sandwiches." The kids started fussing saying Dad said we could have breakfast for supper. That set her off even worse. She started throwing stuff around and cussing. I told her to go lay back down and I would take care of supper. She told the older boys to help her clean up. I again told her to go lay down, I didn't ask for help and she was only making things worse. She paid me no attention and continued on her merry way.
I took a shower and came back in the kitchen to hear her yelling at the kids for making too much of a mess cracking the eggs. She told them to go sit down, she would do it. I sat down with them and talked about the day and ignored her. The kids ate and went to watch T.V. I joined them while she cleaned up the kitchen.
Just wanted to add that I had done the dishes earlier in the day. The only dishes for her to clean up were from lunch. I also did laundry and cleaned up around the house. Not like she would, of course, but it was not a mess by any means.
Anyway, I walked through the kitchen with the kids swimming suits and towels so I could put them in the wash. She was cussing to her self about what a f#%^ing mess the kitchen was. I said, as I was passing through, "Next time, I will be sure to have everything spotless for you when you get home. Of course, you were not supposed to be home until 8:00 and I did not ask for your help. I can take care of the kids and the house on my own." I put the laundry in and went to play with the kids.
W took a shower and went to bed without another word to me.
BTW-the band is going great and is a welcome diversion from this mess. Get to meet lots of single women. It is true what they say about musicians . Breaking the ice is not a problem. I don't even have to go and seek anyone out and flirt, they usually come to me; "Aren't you in the band?" Automatic. Not anyone I would want to marry but the attention is nice.
) I txt her to let her know where we were. She said she was going to lay down, she didn't feel good.(the kids said she threw up a few times on Sat.-maybe from partying too much?)
. Breaking the ice is not a problem. I don't even have to go and seek anyone out and flirt, they usually come to me; "Aren't you in the band?" Automatic. Not anyone I would want to marry but the attention is nice.
