Maybe that's what I need to do around here, bit more seduction. Men love to be knights in shining armour when they can too, I am sure that is part of it. You are a pretty strong woman LL, I reckon our men like it sometimes when they feel needed. It would have been obvious without you having to say it that to let someone with an eye problem drive all the way to Boston and back on their own would be less than chivalrous. So cool things turned out the way they did and you managed to make it into a date! That's what I call taking opportunities where you can find them. Good on you.
take care
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong