So, she's lied to you for most of your life together, lied to you more just recently, and now she CLAIMS to be telling you the "truth" about everything, so you trust her . . . 100%?
Really???
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She told me everything,
Let's see, while you were trusting her "99%," she lied to you just within the past 30 days, as you describe in your previous post.
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She was being 100% honest.
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She said that if it happens again she will let me know.
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Nothing there - just friends, and I believe it.
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I think we have a foundation to work from that can be trusted
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I think I feel much more safe now
God, you're an easy mark.
John, if you think that blindly trusting her, without verifying anything she's telling you, just based on a tearful conversation and what she CLAIMS is the truth, if you think that's what we've all been telling you . . . then you're not reading us very well.
I trust her NOT ONE WHIT, and still believe she's lying to you. But let's just assume for a moment that EVERYTHING SHE TOLD YOU IS ABSOLUTELY TRUE. We could therefore trust her INTENTIONS, but I would STILL not trust her ability to PULL IT OFF.
Not without a no-contact letter, full and complete transparency, and a good MC who specializes in infidelity.
