So far I am pleasantly surprised at the impact that this MLC has had on my kids. They will not go unscathed, but it so far is not as damaging as I thought it would be. Keeping the communication going is the key. Not bad mouthing ex is important. Going dark has kept me sane and able to handle a lot of things.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11