Well it is not a surprise that the relationship is dwindling, come on a 20 year old!
There is only one thing they could have in common and that goes away real quick after time.
You don't know how this will play out or where you will be when this does. Just enjoy life, follow a good path and you will know what to do. Sometimes we spend so much time on the what ifs......
It is normal to feel a twinge as well as to feel sorry for what they are going through. That is what makes you so much more mature and unconditional than him.
There is a time however when the negative starts to outweigh the positive. I think I am at that point. It just gets to be a little ridiculous. Only God knows our plan. We just have to listen and follow.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
