And for every one that I can point to that do run away out of fear, I can point to one or two more than STAY because of fear.
Pup I absolutely agree. There are people who stand and who are stuck.
Everyone has to reach their point and hopefully that decision has been arrived at after they have done the work.
IMO, at least for me, that process started with standing. You learn so much from that very choice. You may start it out of fear and then it follows that you find what Cat described above.
It is a transformation, a growth process. If you are not growing then you ARE stuck.
Even after your M is over. And you have moved FORWARD and not just ran away from someone.
I really think I am an agreement with you. Maybe in MLC it is a bit different than WAS.
But the process for the LBS is the same in my opnion.
And the definition of success is based on the growth and healing of the LBS
NOT
The marriage.
Agreed.
PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
