My H has seen it's complicated several times as well. Of course - there's not connection to him. His life and his situation is completely unique according to him.
Somehow, by reading all of these threads - I'm not feeling so unique:)

Have a good day!

M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years
Ds-24,22/S-18
D - 3/11
A Day at a Time