Hey BeTheMan, I'm new to your post and want to wish you the best of luck. I'm in a similar sisuation with my W. I was in total denial of her affair it was more EA than PA. I never thought W would have an affair based on her past, but I was wrong!!!
Now we are seperated as well and W says she has had no contact with OM since I confronted her back in Feb.
She has admitted she still has feelings for him. When will she snap out of that phase? and maybe say hey the M wasn't that bad.. Maybe she will or maybe she wont. (Well I still have hope)
It's tough to know if anything is going on now, but I have to take this time for me and also be the best dad I can.
The advice on here is great from everyone. Somedays are a lot harder than others, but have to try and keep going foward.
