Had voice recorder for a couple of days and nothing has showed up yet. So i am trying to plan next moves on the assumption that there is no OM. But will leave in place for a week just to make sure.
She is definitely been more curious about my whereabouts etc since I started the LRT and for the first time suggested we get a movie in to watch and we had a pleasant evening. Also she is now starting conversations with me where before there was nothing. Sometimes I can see her catching herself and then turning cold again.
I wouldn't say she is coming around and I have no idea if she is having second thoughts or whether she is just trying to be "friends". I am just trying to run the LRT by the book.
My Dilemma now is I know I need to deal with the conflict between her and my S and there are lots of resources out there to help with it. How do I suggest some of this without linking it to our relationship. I am nervous that if I make some suggestions on how to proceed that she will see this as pursuing.
Last week she said she wanted to separate and get things moving and I encouraged her to do but then she backed off and came up with some suggestions on how to deal with their conflict. She mentioned we would talk later but never brought it up again. By me not bringing this up I feel like we lost momentum but I wanted her to initiate it.
Should i be initiated these conversations or when she says that we will talk later does that mean I should wait for her to initiate.
I am thinking about texting her and setting up a time later in the week to discuss. Is this a good idea ?