Hi Red, I didn't get much traffic in Infidelity when I was originally there, except from Allen who was great but who gave up on me I think because I went all gushy towards WH after 1.5 months of NC towards the time of birth, as he predicted I would! So no offense to Allen. He was great. I was hopeless at detaching from WH
Also I have been here six months and never attracted any advice from the other vets. I wondered if being pregnant made some of us here a bit of a "taboo" bunch?
Yes WH wants divorce. Said it right from the beginning, that it what just a piece of paper and a natural progression from being separated. In my country we have to wait 12 months before divorce can be filed, which makes it Feb 2011 before he can file.
I also realised WH needed a divorce asap because his original plan was to bring OW to live here (so he could have OW and be near his child) and she would need to come on defacto/married visa. This is no longer his plan after finding no work here.- he is going to her in Europe.
Thankyou for outling the dynamics at work in my interactions with WH. You are totally spot on.
Obviously the first thing I need to do is stop projecting a hurt front & put on my business face..and hightale it over to Infidelity.
