MLC spouse projecting their negativity onto the BS

[Truegritter]

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The interaction and gift for your W gives you some perspective of the confusion they experience.

It is best that you refrain from gifts, emotional exchanges.

Two reasons.

The biggest is to protect you because they are not capable of reciprocating in any meaningful way and you will be hurt by this (I am assuming)

2nd expressions of love, gifts, memories etc will be looked on by them as pressure and a form of control which is what they a running from.

The best thing you can do is continue to detach and walk the path yourself.

Alone.

And let her walk hers.