It really has opened up my mind alot..its one thing to get advice from family and friends, and then another to get it off complete strangers who are or have been in similar scenarios. It brings a whole new light.
Ive been really good lately, keeping myself busy and not allowing myself to dwell on the past. I stil think about him everyday. In the beginning of the S, i thought he was the victim and i was in the wrong and i keep going through my head what i could of done better..but i read somewhere in the forum. a Marriage is 50/50 no matter who the victim is..both H and W have responsibilities in the marriage.
Kml - im sorry to hear what had happened to you, and i know you say that im young and i should go and not turn back.. i believe im on that track of going foward. Your right, if by any chance he comes back then we should atttend MC. And i thought about it, you are 100% correct, this proves what a character he is.. im lucky in a way we didnt have kids.
Lees - i guess you know exactly how i feel, I believe in love and marriage, and those words you commit in front of everyone. Its so hard to believe someone turn there back on you before the ink on the marriage certificate dries.
Your right, the only person who can look after myself and can make me happy.. is myself.
Ive just recieved the books in the mail, so ill be busy reading up on all tips.
This site has made me feel good about openning up completey instead of being embrassed.
Me: 28 H:30 M:19/03/09 Renewed vows in home country: 19/03/10 Together: 7 1/2 years Married : 2yr 3 months S:26/06/10 reconciliation started: 1/10/10 Separation 2: 4/5/2011
