How To Tell The Kids

[Fightingforher]

Dan,

I know exactly how you feel right now. After all we've been through I still have this fantasy of my W running back to me. Then I think about the lies, the A, the OM1 & now OM2 and I think to myself why would I take her back????

I'm sure all of us have learned from the mistakes we made in our marriages. This is something we can take with us when we are ready to start a new R. I certainly don't want to make the same mistakes in the future and re-live this hell.

It sounds like our W's are both living in fantasy land right now. Like you I agree that when the final whistle blows we will be the winners at the end. We have been working on ourselves for months and I'm really starting to see results. Our W's on the other hand have underlying issues that unfortunatley for them will follow them around until they get help.

I'm confident that there is somebody out there and things happen for a reason. We just need to make sure that our kids don't suffer because our WAW's thought the grass was greener.